8 August 2022

Hey Luv,

Does it occasionally appear as though everyone around you is self-assured and confident? Most likely, they share the same reservations you do.

So what’s the key to confidence that they’ve figured out?
They are aware that confidence is a quality that one must cultivate. The feeling of conviction that you can achieve anything you set your mind to is what it means to be confident.

This is not to claim that gaining confidence will make all of your difficulties go away. Everybody experiences difficult days or upsetting times. Additionally, being confident does not imply that you are always certain of who you are.

Confidence doesn’t come from having all the answers; it comes from having faith that, no matter what occurs in a circumstance, you’ll be able to handle it and take something away from it.

Let’s break it down a little further…

EMOTIONAL CONTROL
Humans have a remarkable and exceptional ability to feel a variety of emotions. But if you let your feelings rule your perception of life without identifying the source of those feelings, your feelings will eventually take control of you.

The truth is that your feelings, especially your level of confidence, are under your control. People don’t naturally possess confidence; you have to cultivate it.

Gaining confidence gives you the conviction that you can complete the task at hand. Like any other emotion, confidence may be felt. You may learn to access it instantly because it is something you feel.

WHY IS CONFIDENCE SO IMPORTANT?
Every aspect of your life will benefit from learning how to be confident, but there are some situations where it is very necessary, especially when you feel like giving up.

Being confident is a must if you’re a leader and in a role that calls for persuasion and reliability. Nobody will follow a leader who exudes self-doubt. Lack of confidence can significantly affect your capacity to assemble a successful team and lead them toward accomplishing your mutual goals.

Even if you’re not in a leadership position, having confidence is essential to working well with others, whether you’re a salesperson or frequently engage with clients. Being self-assured enables you to establish contacts and generate quick connections that will benefit both your business and yourself.

It’s crucial to know how to have self-assurance outside of the office as well. Gaining more self-assurance can make it easier for you to find a partner with whom you can have a fulfilling relationship. Additionally, it can assist you in resolving disputes amicably and looking for possibilities that will promote your personal development.

Be sure to look out for my blog post for next week, where I will share guidelines on how to build your confidence!

Til next time,

Jeanetta Cardine

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